I recently read an internet entry dithering about the erotic smacking of subs. This author and sub use real or imagined failings of offenses as grounds for the spankings they both enjoy so much but the article mused at length about the wisdom of doing so.
I don’t prefer that mode. I want to spank my tasty sub’s ass, but I want to do it because he loves it, he wants it, and he needs it. In fact, I want him to want it so much that spanking him for offenses is counter-productive.This is not to say that in the moment of delivery he is grinning. Oooooh no
But if he were to do something that made me want to hit him he undoubtedly wouldn’t deserve the attention. Whatever tickles the individual kink is certainly what they should do (with the standard caveats) but I like it when he looks in my eyes and tells me he wants me to tie him up and work him over, not because he deserves it, but because he wants it, he knows I love to do it, and it makes us both so fucking hot.